“Relationships need space to grow”. I read it somewhere and
realized, How true it is !!!
No matter how much you love the person, no matter how much
you love their company, no matter how much you are dependent on them or they
are dependent on you, the only thing needs to be maintained is that little
space in between to add a sweetness to your relation.
Nobody likes being forced for the things they don’t want to
do or don’t like to do. Neither you.
Always remember one thing, when you restrict someone from
doing what they want, they will still do it without telling you. So it is
better that you allow them so that they respect & share it with you. This
also gives you a chance to bring them on right path if they are going wrong.
They will also listen to you as they know that you don’t unnecessarily annoy. But when you are not being told anything you have
no idea what’s going on. You will come to know only when something goes miserably
wrong & it would be too late to correct.
When it is with your partner, don’t be his or her tail everywhere.
Let him be free for some time. Let him be alone, be with his friends, be with his
elders he likes. Let him do what he wants even if you don’t like it. And you
know what, you will enjoy the same.
Sometimes do some things for him which you don’t like but
make sure not to make it a habit to do it always without your consent. Let the
other person have a realization that you are doing something for him and you
can’t keep doing that every time. Let it come as their turn as well to do
something for you which he doesn’t like.
When it with elders or Youngers, always remember that there
is always a generation gap, may be a big or small. But it is there. Let it be. Don’t
force them to come to yours’s or even you don’t go to theirs’s. Be in your own
zone & set the other person free in theirs. It’s all about accepting each other. Don’t
change. Change is good for health only if you want it or like it.
Relationships are like the fire.
If you want to get the
warmth from it,
you need to be at specific distance from it.
Neither too close
nor too far.
If you are closer more than required, it will burn you.
If you
are far than required, you will not feel the warmth.
This
little space bring you closer. Think about it.
Go, Give It & Have It!!!
